Tame Iti's urgent te reo Māori advocacy incurred personal costs for his young family. His son Wairere shares feeling disconnected from his absent father and cause as a child. Wairere's brother Toi lends empathy, recognizing Tame's youth during intense activism. Tame reflects on unexpected fatherhood amidst cultural change. Their stories reveal sacrifices made for progress and healing through reciprocal care.